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There are only three types of problem-solving strategies: coercion, compromise and collaboration (also known as synergy).
Compromise and coercion are inferior problem-solving strategies because they prevent truly sustainable root cause solutions from emerging. Synergy is the only problem-solving strategy capable of generating sustainable solutions that repair the root causes of our problems. It is also the only problem-solving strategy that can shift us from ideological fanaticism to collaborative coexistence.
When solutions grow from seeing less than the entire big picture, as is true of coercion and compromise, they never solve the problem. Synergy approaches problem-solving like assembling a jigsaw puzzle in which all the pieces are initially face down, and you don’t know beforehand what the picture will look like when you're done. Synergy requires humility because no one person or group accurately sees the big picture all by themselves. Synergy requires two important skills:
Arrogance Squashes Synergy: When people insist that their perspective is the superior one, or the only legitimate one, they are essentially saying one of two things. They are either saying that only the part of the puzzle they see is real or they are saying that the part of the puzzle they see is the entire puzzle. These positions reflect arrogance not wisdom. This prevents jigsaw puzzles from being assembled so that the actual big picture is revealed. This arrogance is precisely what has been preventing us from co-creating the solutions we need. Synergy creates pragmatic solutions on behalf of the common good. Synergy honors the solid core of ethical standards permeating all of the world's major religions and does not damage individual, societal, or planetary health. Because of this, synergy transcends moral relativism.
Synergy is the First Choice: All over the world, the most widely used problem-solving strategy is coercion. Compromise is used only as a fall-back strategy when coercion doesn't work. And synergy is rarely used at all. This is the reverse of what developing sustainable solutions requires. Partisan coercion destroys long-term good will and collaboration. Bipartisan compromise creates watered down agreements that solve nothing in the long run. This is why synergy must become our first choice problem-solving strategy. Compromise should only the backup plan if all attempts at synergy fail. And coercion should only be used as a last resort in emergency situations.
Which of the three primary problem-solving strategies (coercion, compromise, synergy) do you use first, second and third? Are you willing to master the art of synergy? Are you willing to use compromise only as a backup plan if all attempts at synergy fail, and to use coercion only as a last resort in emergency situations? Synergy only fails when problem-solvers are insufficiently trained, or insufficiently motive, to use it. What specific commitment will you make to upgrade your synergy skills?
Select a specific action you will take to help promote a societal shift to synergy-centered problem solving. Here are some possibilities:
Decide who you will contact, what you will say or do, how this will happen, and when you will do this. Then do it.
Revisit your commitments every six months to decide whether it’s time to modify them.
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