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Integrity isn't a sacrifice --
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From the White House, to the board room, to the privacy of our own bedrooms and virtually everywhere in between, one thing our society is badly in need of is a restoration of integrity.
The New IQ provides a dynamic road tested primer for restoring this disappearing virtue for the sake of our loved ones, our communities, our businesses, our society, and our own personal wellbeing.
The New IQ Integrity Makeover Workbook provides ten modules of illuminating self-assessments and powerful exercises for integrating into your life what you learn in The New IQ.
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Dr. David Gruder is a psychologist, award-winning self-improvement author, and captivating speaker who speaks, trains and consults worldwide on integrity development and enhancement.
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The Cafe is open to everyone. Anything goes on this open forum as long as you do it with integrity, so please keep it PG, kind and collaborative. If this is your first time at the Cafe, please stop off at the Welcome Desk to announce yourself before taking a seat at whichever "table" below appeals to you. A delicious experience awaits you here at the Cafe. Pull up a chair at the table of your choice and say what's on your mind!
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Think of this part of the Cafe as the check-in desk where you announce yourself before taking a seat at a 3D Integrity Cafe "table" for your first time. As this is a self-serve Cafe, please write a few words here to introduce yourself and tell the community a bit about you. Do this by clicking on "Welcome Desk" (above, if you aren't already there), and then selecting the "Post New Forum Topic" option at the top of that page. Welcome!
| 3 | 5 | 13 weeks 4 days ago by Jamie |
This 3D Integrity Cafe "table" is for sharing your questions, discoveries, successes and words of praise having to do with The New IQ book and workbook. Dr. Gruder loves to visit this table!
Also, if you loved the book, consider doing either or both of the following:
Write a glowing 5-star book review the The New IQ page on Amazon.com and/or on any other book website you like.
Here’s the Amazon URL:
www.amazon.com/New-IQ-Integrity-Intelligence-Relationships/dp/1604150130
Scroll down to just below the existing reviews and click on the “Create your own review” button.
Post reviews on relevant blogs. One example is the Bill Moyers Blog. They have been taking suggestions for the book the next president should take to the White House.
Here’s the URL:
http://www.pbs.org/moyers/journal/blog/2008/01/power_reading.html
You will find a place to post your recommendation if you scroll all the way to the bottom of the page.
Thanks!
| 1 | 3 | 12 weeks 6 days ago by David |
This 3D Integrity Cafe "table" is for discussing the news and current events in the world, other than politician integrity, which has its own "table" here at the Cafe (just below this one). What do you think about the latest news and how does this news story illustrate the absence or presence of integrity?
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This Integrity Cafe "table" is for those wanting to dialogue with others about the results they got using the Politician Integrity Rating Tool (PIRT) as well as have more general discussions about politician integrity. As you have these discussions, bear in mind that both flaming other people and being rigidly tied to being right are symptoms of relationship integrity deficits. So, when you visit this "table" (and all "tables" at the Integrity Cafe forum), practice relationship integrity by remaining teachable and by treating others with dignity... especially those whose perspectives are different from yours.
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This 3D Integrity Cafe "table" is for sharing examples of Everyday Stewardship that you have seen others do or that you have done yourself. The more examples members provide, the clearer it will become just how many ways all of us can be Everyday Stewards... usually without spending any additional time or energy. Readers will also start to see how rewarding it is to be an Everyday Steward! For more information about Everyday Stewardship, read The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships and Our World.
| 1 | 1 | 15 weeks 3 days ago by David |
This 3D Integrity Cafe "table" is specifically for couples using The New IQ book and workbook to share discoveries and questions with other couples. Dr. Gruder makes a point of periodically visitng the Couples Corner to offer his perspective!
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Visit this 3D Integrity Cafe "table" when you want to find people and businesses to partner and network with. This is a place to demonstrate with one another how integrity in business is profitable, enriching and refreshing!
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This 3D Integrity Cafe "table" is a place to talk about anything else - all types of conversation not covered at the other "tables" in the 3D Integrity Cafe. Just keep PG and attack-free -- integrity is the only thing that is served at the 3D Integrity Cafe.
| 1 | 1 | 15 weeks 5 days ago by David |
These forums are for people currently participating in, or wanting to participate in, a 3D Integrity Circle. 3D Integrity Circles are mutual support groups that anyone is free to set up in order to join with others in their community to explore and embody the 3D Integrity principles and skills described in The New IQ book and workbook. [NOTE: Integrity Makeover Private Forums are is NOT venues for advertising. The one Forum in which this is encouraged is the Networking and Partnerships "table" in the The 3D Integrity Cafe.]
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This forum is for posting your questions and your discoveries about forming a 3D Integrity Circle and conducting meetings. You are encouraged to support and assist one another on this forum. Dr. Gruder will check in periodically to 'listen' and to offer his input when it might be useful. Be sure to read his 3D Integrity Circle Guidelines.
| 1 | 1 | 16 weeks 2 days ago by David |
This forum is for sharing the discoveries your 3D Integrity Circle makes, and questions you have, about the various topics covered in The New IQ book and workbook. You can post discoveries and questions here even if you are not part of a 3D Integrity Circle.
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Post on this forum examples of Everyday Stewardship (examples of serving collective highest good in ordinary everyday life), ways you have gotten coverage in your community on integrity-related matters, and actions you have done or events you have organized to encourage greater integrity in your community, organization or business.
| 1 | 2 | 13 weeks 1 day ago by Ron |